This really is not a thought provoking post but simply me observing men and their behavior. I've been surrounded by girls for years and now that I'm spending more time with son-in-laws and boyfriends I find myself a bit baffled.
This past weekend we attended a wedding in Ft. Worth. Lauren Elizabeth was doing wedding stuff with the wedding party so Thomas, her boyfriend, was hanging out with Gary and I. We were going to meet our youngest 2 girls and a friend for lunch and as usual they were running a bit late so we headed on over to the restaurant and waited for them to arrive. The guys were sitting there talking about sports and spouting out facts from numerous games, players and seasons. Now these facts were not confined to just one sport. They seemed to know a little bit of what I deem as useless knowledge about golf, basketball, baseball and football. I sat there wishing the girls would hurry so we could discuss something more interesting and I wouldn't be so bored. Then I started thinking about all the times Gary has patiently sat and listened to us chatter about things he could care less about and was just happy to spend time with us. So I told myself to just sit there quietly and be happy for him to have a guy around for a change.
What is it about men that allows their brains to retain these facts from the time they are young boys. Why do they care who has the all time record for batting? And why is it that they all seem to know it? Just when I think one of them will be stumped, I'm amazed. If one of them doesn't know or remember the year something happened, they start collaborating and somehow, through the process of elimination, they figure it all out and then can even tell you what field they played on and what time of day it was! As if that isn't enough, Gary can tell you every club he hit on every hole and where it landed after a round of golf. I can't even keep track of how many strokes I had per hole. How do they do this?
I hang out with Gary and his guy friends a lot. I'm attaching a video I made after one of our trips to my mom's place in Cloudcroft, New Mexico where they were doing a bit of maintenance work for her. After the mishap you will see in the video Gary's only concern was as to whether or not he needed stitches because we needed to leave immediately if he did so we would not be late for our tee time. Who thinks like that? Men are just odd!
So maybe I don't really want to know the answer to my queries. I am not sure my courage is to that level yet. So I will just watch and listen and stay amazed by these odd but wonderful guys in my life.